This proverb warns that excess and imbalance invite trouble. In a few vivid images, it shows how taking on too much or the wrong mix of responsibilities can turn prosperity into stress.
Khmer: ប្រពន្ធពីរ គោបី ដំរីមួយ នាំឲ្យព្រួយចិត្ត
Transcription: propun pi, ko bey, damrei muoy, noam aoy pruoy chet
Literal translation: Two wives, three cows, one elephant bring worry to the heart
The scene comes from rural life. Two wives suggest divided attention and conflict at home. Three cows mean more livestock than one person can easily manage. An elephant is powerful but costly, requiring food, space, and care. Each item signals responsibility that grows faster than one’s capacity.
The proverb criticizes overextension and poor judgment. It cautions against accumulating relationships, assets, or obligations without the means to manage them well. More is not always better; the right amount, handled wisely, brings stability, while excess creates tension and constant worry.
- A small business owner expands too quickly, takes multiple loans, and ends up stressed by repayments and staff issues.
- Someone juggles several side hustles and relationships, but none receive proper attention, leading to conflict and burnout.
- Online, chasing every “opportunity” or trend spreads time and money thin, producing anxiety instead of gain.
English offers “Too many cooks spoil the broth” and “Don’t bite off more than you can chew,” both warning against excess and overreach. French parallels include “Qui trop embrasse mal étreint” and “Trop de cuisiniers gâtent la sauce.” What stands out in the Khmer version is its rural imagery of wives, cattle, and an elephant, grounding the lesson in everyday village economics and family life.
What in your life feels like “two wives, three cows, one elephant,” and how could you simplify it?
